If one of us left a towel on the floor it was a personal attack on the other.
Jealously became an emotion that couldn’t be tamed and was used as a weapon to hurt one another.
Thanks for letting me share this story, and hopefully it will help someone else’s relationship. Shy gay guys in the community are terrified to approach men—I’m one of them!
It might look like we’re extroverts but when it comes to matters of the heart, rarely do we have the courage of our convictions.
This wouldn’t be an easy task since our lives had been combined pretty much since the first day we met.
We had to take a couple weeks of just figuring stuff out. We didn’t invite people over and we just stayed home packing, looking for apartments etc.
All those shitty nights we spent arguing over nothing and calling each other horrible names, had just left our minds.
We both realized that it was the alcohol that was ruining out relationships.
We decided to give it more time and see if we could keep things going.A few months ago my boyfriend and I were on the verge of breaking up.We’ve been together for 3 years and the last year or so our relationship started to become really toxic.And the times we didn’t go out friends would come over and we’d drink and watch TV.Every night fighting about non-sense seemed to be a daily routine.There have been plenty of guys in my life who I thought were the sexiest thing I’d ever seen at first impression, only to have them slide down the point system after a few days. #4) “How do I make it known I’m interested and don’t want to just be friends?